How to be popular

Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Nobody likes a person who can`t keep his words.Especially in a world full of uncertainty,it feel good to know someone you can rely on.So be that kind of person,and you`ll star gaining friends.

Cultivate a sense of humor
While you may not have a joke collection as huge as funnymen Jim Carrey,its helps if you can laugh at jokes and at yourself.Its hard to resist the sound of crystal-clear,hearty can set the seed of humour germinating by reading amusing books and watching comedies.And don`t be afraid of doing something foolish.People like people who are human,which means it`s OK to commit gaffes from times to times

Be curious about others
Show an interest in what others are doing,and they`re likely to be interested in you too.People like to talk about themselves.And everyone loves an audience.So go ahead and ask them about their hobbies,the latest movie they`ve watched and the cafe that serves the best cappuccino.A words of caution here:being curious does`t mean being nosey.Know when to stop digging

Look for goodness in others
Any fool can criticise and cut others to bits,but it takes a special person to see beauty and strength in a fellow human being.Open your eyes and your mind to find something you can admire about someone.Give sincere compliments when appropriate.We`re not talking about false flattery-that`s a sure way to invite distrust.There is something good in everyone,you only have to observe closely.

Keep yourself updated on what`s happening
Its useful to be in the know about something,if not many things.It make you interesting.Who want to be with a clueless dork?Make good use of the Internet,newspaper,television and radio.

Stand up for yourself.

If you have as much spines as jelly,its time to show that you are no pushover.People gravitate towards those with admirable qualities, and self respect is a wonderful thing to possess.Too many people lets other walk all over them ; so assert yourself,state your views and be proud of them.Don`t go to the extremes thought;maintain you stand gracefully without bulldozing the opinion of others.

Mind you manner
While you need not have the manners of the British royalty,you shouldn't`t be rude little bugger either.Sloppy table manners and slovery handphone etiquette are sure-fire ways of turning people off.Even being show off counts as bad form.

Really listen to others.

It feels good when someone pay attention when you are talking to them.So return them a favour and give 1000% of your attention to them too. A lot of people make a mistake of trying to gets a word in when people are talking.Practising good listening shows that you respect others.And respect beget respect.

Be big-hearted

Only little people take offence all the time.Know when to forgive and forget the little annoyance in life

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